There are no ED (erectile dysfunction) medications to help with sexual performance anxiety. ED medications are only helpful if you have a physical, medical problem. The focus for someone with performance anxiety should be to treat the anxiety. CBT (cognitive behavioral therapy) is helpful to address your triggers, irrational thoughts, and maladaptive behaviors that contribute to your anxiety. A therapist can help you with this, and may also include your partner in therapy to see how they can also help to address the anxiety. The goal of treating sexual performance anxiety would be to increase your intimacy with your partner in other ways, until your sexual intimacy follows suit.